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November 13, 2006

GPLDate, New Dating Site Software

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Posted by Dave Evans

Several times a week people ask me to recommend which dating site software or platform is "the best."

Being that I am not a developer, I point people to the Tools area as a good starting point and let them come to their own conclusion, hopefully with a knowledgeable developer close at hand.

Intrepid online dating entrepreneurs may want to check out GPLDate, which Rob from ModMySite announced recently.

ModMySite provides help, support, modifications, and upgrades for the GPLdate Open Source Dating / Community Script, BoonEx Dolphin - Smart Community Builder Script (GPL), the BoonEx Dolphin Dating Script, the aeWebWorks aeDating Dating Script, and other related PHP / mySQL based Applications.

I really with they had come up with a better name than GPLDate. GPL stands for general public license, too generic.

The ModMySite contains a forum, which might be a good place for those of you looking for assistance with your site or help selecting dating site software.

Is anyone using Webscribble? I know several companies developing services for dating sites are using Webscribble for their test sites and have been surprised the software is not receiving more attention.

BoonEx (used to be AE Webworks) Dolphin script gets mentioned a lot in the comments here. I've not used it myself but I tend to lump all inexpensive script packages together, for good or for bad.

Often one would categorize dating sites in a box as reliable, scalable, extendable or the right price. Problem is you can only pick three, you never get four out of four.

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September 6, 2006

Online Matchmaking With Virtual Dates

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Posted by Dave Evans

Yesterday I had coffee with Jeana Frost, creator of Virtual Dates, an application well suited for the icebreaker portion of meeting someone online. You know the feeling. Someone catches your eye, but their profile doesn't leave you with much to start a conversation with. You sit there re-reading the profile over and over, trying to glean that tidbit of information that's going to tip the scale over and have you reaching for the Wink or Email button.

Suffice to say it was clear early on in our conversation that we shared common ground when it comes to our views on the shortcomings of online dating.

Jeana and her fellow academics think the current model for meeting someone online is artificial and static, and far removed from everyday social interaction. I couldn't agree more.

According to Jeana and co's research, online dating is terribly inefficient, lacks appropriate filters and a mechanism for social feedback. Where is the information we really want to know about a person? The attributes we need most that aren't described by income, religion or favorite sports team?

To begin to address the perceived shortcomings of today's dating sites, Jeana built Virtual Dates while at the MIT Media Lab. Virtual Dates is built on Chat Circles, part of of Sociable Media Group.

Chat Circles is an abstract graphical interface for synchronous text conversation. Here, color and form are used to convey social presence and activity, and proximity-based filtering is used intuitively to break large groups into conversational clusters. The system also includes an integrated history interface, which visualizes archival Chat Circle logs. Our goal in this work is to create a richer environment for online discussions.

While I haven't seen the demo, from the description, it sounds like it could be a useful feature for dating and social networking sites, if the user experience is done just right and the final product is properly integrated. It's got to be dead simple to stick on a site like a Userplane chat and tightly integrated, like WeAttract on Yahoo Personals. Speaking of WeAtttract, whatever happened to them?

I'm often frustrated with my dating site clients when it comes to baseline metrics for measuring various site stats. Thankfully, being a Media Lab alumni, Jeana knows how important the role of data logging can be in monitoring and measuring the performance of an application like Virtual Dates.

Thankfully there is a phenomenal testing lab available, Myspace. Unleash your app out into the wild, get 50k users in a few weeks and log loads of data about how people are, and aren't using the service.

Less than half of all singles in the US has tried online dating. The other half remains a cagey quarry unlikely to sign up for a dating site any time soon due to a number of factors, known and unknown.

Dating sites should be doing everything in their power to figure out ways to entice more people to try online dating. Adding social networking features is part of the solution, but the real answer is the unknown and often intangible gut reaction people get to a particular blend of features, user experience and quality of the members. The vibe of a site is often what makes or breaks it's success and it's almost impossible to stumble across the perfect blend of paid subscription, social networking, dating, collaboration and communication tools which will define the online dating experience of the future.

Perhaps applications like Virtual Dates, or an environment based on the concept, is what's needed to entice the other 50 million singles to give online dating a shot.

Jeana's dissertation is titled "Decision Making in the Information Age: A Study of and Design for Online Dating." You can bet that's going to be on my reading shelf in the near future. Harvard Business School did a story on Virtual Dates last week.

Dating and social networking executives would do well to seek out Jeana at jeana.frost at gmail dot com to find out more about how new social interaction applications will drive the next generation of online dating and social networking. If enough interest is drummed up, I'm hoping we'll see Virtual Dates on dating sites soon enough.

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August 25, 2006

Friday 8-25 Links: JDate, Apple, Tribe.net, SkaDate, Facebook

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Posted by Dave Evans

JDupe: PocketChange mag dupes women into meeting mirage Richard Nouveau via JDate.

Re-Tribe: Mark Pincus is back as CEO of Tribe.net after being ousted in April. (possible hoax?)

Ex eDonkey (file sharing service) CEO starts YADS (Yet Another Dating Site). Supposedly traffic is thriving.

Version 5 of SkaDate software is available. What is it with the Eastern European lock on dating site software?

FaceBook adds blogs, just don't call them that.

JDate gets political: raises $30,000 in donations for children in the North affected by the conflict.

Apple, Microsoft Try Social Software Model: Apple's new OS, Leopard will have wikis and social networking feature. Microsoft announced XNA Game Studio Express, which costs $99 per year and allows you to compile code to run on PCs and the 360 as well as share your work with others in the same network.

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June 7, 2006

Dating Software Reviews

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Posted by Dave Evans

Dating Software Reviews is a community of webmasters and dating scripts clients that offer reviews of online dating applications and services provided by dating software development companies. Dating platforms range from php to asp based applications, free, private and hosted solutions.

As with all community forums and review sites, your mileage may, no, will, vary. Some people put more time and effort into reviews, others simply mention the most popular packages or list every software package even remotely related to dating.

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ModMySite Dating Software Forum

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I just found out about ModMySite, a forum focused on the discussion, support, and modification of PHP/MySQL based Internet Dating applications.

We currently support aeWebWorks AEdating, BoonEx Dolphin, and other popular dating platforms. Forums include topics like General Troubleshooting, Bugs, BBS, Forums, Blogs, Guestbooks, Chat, Shoutbox, Instant Messenger, Database, Graphics, Templates, Language Files, Payment Processing, Promotion, Affiliates, Security, Server Administration, Upgrading, and a free Mod Exchange.

I haven't spent much time there but with all the emails and comments on the blog about different dating site software options I thought this might be helpful to some of you. Make sure to leave a comment with your thoughts.

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May 9, 2006

BoonEx Dating Software Revolution

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Posted by Dave Evans

Andrey Sivtsov, General Director, BoonEx Group, sent along clarifications about the BoonEx/AEWebworks deal. It was a bit confusing to say the least which is why I am writing this. Bias alert: Boonex/AE is an advertiser, if you think the amount of money I get from the few ads on this blog is enough to bias me you don't know enough about blogging.

BoonEx is a privately owned company, based in Kyrgyz Republic, established in the end of 2005. BoonEx was founded by AEwebworks co-owner. In the end of 2005 AEwebworks properties were split between co-owners and AEwebworks website along with aeDating software legally became a property of BoonEx Group.

BoonEx will continue to support all AEwebworks customers and aeDating software, as per aeDating license agreement. Theyrecommend switching to Dolphin or Shark, as they believe that BoonEx delivery terms and support system is more effective for customers than those of AEwebworks.

What is Shark? Shark is dating business software. Shark was designed and developed by BoonEx Group from ground up and it is a truly high-end product for running a high-scale dating website. Shark has compiled C-based backend and PHP/AJAX-based front-end. Shark doesn’t have the variety of functions as Dolphin does, because it has different philosophy. They are working on the main engine, trying to polish it, while extra features can be developed individually for any specific customer. Shark is meant to be a corporate solution with main focus on business and marketing tools, greater stability and security levels.

BoonEx is now in the process of porting popular aeDating templates into Dolphin (web community software). They also plan to release a few new products and upgrade current ones.

More on Ray, Barracuda and Dolphin.

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March 6, 2006

Interview with Webscribble

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Posted by Dave Evans

I recently found out about a company called Webscribble, which has a private-label dating site software solution called webDate. The only other major offering I've come across that approached the same feature set is from AE Webworks. Since I get asked about private-lable sites all the time, and being an inquisitive guy, I emailed Webscribble to find out more about the company and it's offering for the dating industry.

ODI: General Webscribble background

Web Scribble has been in business for over four years. We initially started with some small PHP based products that we sold on our web site. Our first major product, and one of our most successful products to date, was webDate. The first version of webDate was released in 2002 and we have since been constantly adding new features and improvements to it.

ODI: WebDate, 10 versions in 2 years, a mature product?

WebDate is one of the oldest and most mature dating software packages currently on the market. Since its debut in 2002 we have released 10 versions, each having enhancements and new features. Many of the features we implement for webDate are from customers requests and we are constantly adding new features to the software. Through the years, we have made stability, scalability, and feature set our highest priority. The software has matured to a point where it is very stable, with very few bugs and problems. We strive to help our customers succeed; whether they’re looking to start a small hobby site, or run a large site with tens, or even hundreds of thousands of members, webDate was built to handle it. Many of our clients have had some huge successes with their sites, and some have been published in newspapers, radio, and even on TV shows.

ODI: How is it competing with AE Webworks?

It’s difficult to say exactly how well we are competing, since we obviously don’t have AE Webworks’ sales data. We feel that webDate is very competitive with AE Webworks in terms of features and price. We actually have many customers who have converted from aeDating to webDate. Many of those customers cited a lack of support or communication problems with overseas techs as reasons for switching. webDate’s feature list is also very comprehensive, well planned, and implemented. We do not add new features to the software just to say we have them. Instead, we carefully plan each new addition, and get customer input on anything that we might be missing.

ODI: Where are you based?

Our offices are located in upstate New York, just outside of Albany.

ODI: I didn't know cowboydate ran on webdate. I love that site.

Yes, they are one of our clients! They’ve done a great job with their site and are a real success story. CowboyDate has been running webDate for over three years now and is one of our older clients.

ODI: How many customers, how many sites hosted?

Unfortunately, we don’t disclose that information to the public.

ODI: What about Free installation?

Our customers vary in technical ability, which is why we offer a free installation with every purchase. We will install the software on any server as long as meets the system requirements for the software. The installations take a maximum of three business days to complete after we receive the request, but we often finish them in under a day.

ODI: Custom work

We realize that many companies and individuals may need assistance in customizing their site and adding new features to make it more competitive and unique. For this reason, we make our talented programmers available for custom work. In most cases, we can provide a price quote up front so the customer has an idea of the costs involved in the customization being requested.

ODI: Why is Zend Optimizer Required?

There are two reasons we use Zend Optimizer. The first is to protect against software piracy. We had some major piracy problems with our earlier products and we made a business decision to use Zend Optimizer and implemented a licensing system to help curb piracy.

The second reason we use Zend Optimizer is to optimize certain PHP code (they don’t call it Zend Optimizer for nothing!). The code that’s encrypted is core backend code that never needs to be modified by the customer. At the same time, since it’s an important part of the system, the code benefits from being encrypted because it runs faster.

ODI: Why so inexpensive as opposed to competitors such as aewebworks?

Our pricing structure varies quite a bit from AE Webworks. Rather than forcing customers to pay a large amount up front, we let our customers purchase just what they need.

The basic software package is $199, but we also have some optional plug-ins that can be purchased. Plug-ins are enhancements to the web site that may be great additions to some site, but not to others.

For example, we have a U.S. zip code plug-in that allows members to find others a certain number of miles away from their zip code. While this is a great addition for sites targeting U.S. members, it may not be a good fit for those targeting a country with no postal codes.

What makes our pricing structure so great is that you only buy what you need. You don’t have to pay extra for features you’ll never use.

ODI: What is average ticket price $199 + ?

It’s very common for customers to purchase at least one plug-in after they purchase webDate. Plug-ins allow our customers to add enhancements to their sites and to stay on top of a highly competitive industry.

ODI: Does Userplane provides the Live video? Is this a frequent module?

No, we actually have our own live video plug-in, which is not powered by Userplane. However, we have had some customers use Userplane for live video on their sites.

ODI: What are the most common modules ordered?

We have a very diverse client base that targets different niche markets all over the globe. As a result, there is no common set of plug-ins that are purchased. I would say one of the more popular is the U.S. zip code plug-in for those targeting U.S. singles.

ODI: Future plans?

We plan to continue developing webDate and are currently working on a new version. The next version of webDate will surpass all competitors in features and usability. We are completely revamping our administrative area to make it more user friendly. We will be adding many new features including blogging support, WYSIWYG template editor, more advanced subscription support, and much more.

Thanks to Alexander at Web Scribble Solutions for the information.

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March 8, 2005

Open source identity management, social tools

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Posted by Dave Evans

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SocialPhysics is a new program affiliated with the Berkman Center for Internet & Society at the Harvard Law School to "Develop a reusable, open source software framework that provides core services including: identity management, social network data models, authentication management, encryption, and privacy controls."

This is much more compelling framework on which next-generation introduction sites could be built than SocialGrid. Stowe Boyd has more over at Get Real.

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February 5, 2005

More dating site software

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Posted by Dave Evans

ChristianLance.com is a safe site created to connect Christian Webmasters and Programmers. More dating site in a box software here.

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January 10, 2005

Dating Site Software

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Posted by Dave Evans

I've started a category to track the dating site software vendors as well as value-added services. Please email me with additions or corrections.

Private Label Systems

Vintacom:Relationship Exchange

What the RE will do for you:
• Design your site based on YOUR desired image.
• Customer care, payment processing and operations are ALL taken care of for you.
• Assist in Marketing Initiatives.
• Provide on-going commitment to site enhancements, performance and quality control.
• Provide a progressive approach to optimize the customer buying experience.
• Continued research and innovation.

What the RE expects from you:
• Sensitivity to the confidentiality of Customer Data
• To be a qualified business with solid principles of business ethics and integrity
• To have a well-documented Marketing plan aimed at building site revenues
• Trust-E authorized (a requirement for data export)
• Customers that are 18 and over.
• To support our vision in establishing a leadership role in the on-line dating industry.
• Commitment to helping singles meet new people in a safe, fun environment

AEwebworks: aeDating
Starting at $690.
Options:

AEwebworks Dating Software Development and USERPLANE (leading provider of community communication applications) united to provide the best software combination for a dating website with most advanced features available on the net. From now and on aeDating supports Instant Communicator IM, A/V recorder, and Multi-User Chat Room. These products are not included into default aeDating 3.1 package, but can be added for a special price of just $299 (while original price of USERPLANE is $500), and ongoing fees to USERPLANE also apply (click here to view USERPLANE pricing). aeDating still supports its own original recorder, chat and IM applications, which are included into the default package. USERPLANE provides full technical support for their software. Online Demo now features both standard and USERPLANE-powered versions

DatingRev

DatingRev is an established high-quality personals service that can help you start your own business in the online dating industry. As a DatingRev partner, you will receive a high percentage of revenues for the lifetime of each member you sign up and take advantage of these benefits:

- Access to one of the largest, active database of singles
- Fully customizable to match your brand (see examples)
- Ability to promote your site in affiliate networks (e.g.: CJ, LinkShare)
- Control membership pricing
- Target your site with different site niches
- Real-time member and transaction reports
More info

Video/Chat applications:

Userplane

Userplane Apps are Flash-based, enterprise Web applications that support live text and audio/video communication. Deployed internationally on sites ranging from online communities to intranets, our application suite reaches tens of millions of users and supports over 3 million live conversations a month in 12 countries.

NetLive

Netlive designs, develops, and customizes web-based video meeting platforms for companies of any size. Our high performance and highly secure online meeting services drive results for sales, marketing, support, training and other professionals. Our products use standard technologies through standard web browsers, thus making for the easiest to use, most broadly accessible video collaboration systems possible.

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October 27, 2004

How to build a dating site

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Posted by Dave Evans

With so many dating industry executives floating around looking for something to do I thought I would throw out an idea for a new dating service.

First, I'll buy a dating site from aedating. Or Relationship Exchange for that matter. Then I'll license community apps from Userplane, drop in identify verfication from Trufina and talk Transparensee into giving us a copy of their search technology so we can create more compelling search capabilities.

Then I would go license personality profiling tools and create a short and sweet profile builder that was extendable with additional questions based on users interests.

I'd add a customer support area that does just that, supports customers. Too many sites out there are great at taking your c.c information but strangely absent when it comes to helping newbies figure out what the heck a Favorites List is.

I'll partner with ProfileDoctor (Disclaimer, that's me), maybe sign up a few relationship coaches from True for the upscale set. How about partnering with 8minutedating for speed dating and figuring out something to do with all of the canned Live Events people at Match?

Next up, savvy marketing people to come up with a killer tag line and someone who knows how to write a press release to spread the word. I'm constantly amazed at how poorly most dating sites are at communicating with customers and the press. Have you read the releases coming out of dating services? Ugh. Talented marketing folks are all over the place these days. They've been there, done that, and know what it takes to succeed. Mostly because they watched their previous employers screw up so much.

After that, go sign up a few affinity groups, like Starbucks, Virgin and T-mobile for customer base. Maybe talk to AARP to hit up those seniors.

I'd add a rating system too, so you could tell the cellar-dwellers from the right stuff.

I wouldn't spend much time on mobile stuff unless I was going to play in EU, because mobile dating in the US hasn't found it's footing yet and unless you absolutely must hook up in the next 10 minutes, being home in front of a monitor scanning the "new members" feed is much more appealing than trying to get a cell signal in a bar on a tiny screen. Plus, EU is mostly locked up between 2-3 services already.

If things were looking good at this point maybe I would buy up a few choice small players. Give them a check and say "Thanks for playing" and import their members into the system. There are so many people wasting their time trying to get a date online at these tiny sites, let's give consumers what they need. Lot's of people, exciting experience and ongoing new features.

Finally, I'll go raise $10 million to begin marketing my NextGenDating.com service to the masses. If you don't come to the table with that kind of money you have no business starting a new dating site these days unless you expect it to be nothing more than a hobby. Shouldn't take more than a handful of people and a few months to get to 50k paying customers, since consumers seem to be dying for an alternative to the Big 5 dating sites and the niche sites don't seem to be able to effectively market themselves. Even if they could none of them have the money to make it happen.

Lastly, I'd create an XML feed (with ads) of everyone in the database and let developers create all sorts of apps to slice, dice, search and categorize members. People should be able to get their singles feed through their newsreader, personal portal, blog or wherever. I'd tag members with their advertising preferences so ad networks can finally market directly with pinpoint accuracy. How come nobody has figured this stuff out yet?

I've left out some of the secret sauce on purpose, partly to find out what your thoughts are. What would you do differently?

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